The Words For That

You Know the Conversation You've Been Avoiding.
Here Are the Exact Words for It.

30 word-for-word answers for work, relationships, and the stuff nobody taught you. Copy-paste ready. $12.

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You know that feeling.

Your boss criticizes you in front of everyone. Your partner shuts down in the middle of an argument. Your mother-in-law makes that comment again. A coworker takes credit for your work and nobody says a word.

And you stand there. Frozen. Heart pounding. The words stuck somewhere between your brain and your mouth.

Later that night, you replay it. In the shower. In bed at 2am. On your commute. You think of the perfect thing you should have said.

But the moment's gone. And it'll happen again next week.

Here's the thing.

It's not that you're bad at talking to people. It's that nobody ever gave you the words for the hard conversations.

So you Google it. And you get articles that say “communicate openly” and “set healthy boundaries” and “practice assertive communication.” Cool. What does that mean on a Tuesday morning when your boss is in your face?

You don't need a lecture. You need the exact words for the exact situation you're stuck in right now.

30 Word-for-Word Answers for the Conversations You Keep Avoiding

Every answer gives you five things:

  1. 1. The situation. So you can find it fast.
  2. 2. What NOT to say. And exactly why it backfires.
  3. 3. What to say instead. The actual words, ready to use.
  4. 4. Why it works. Brief. No jargon. So you trust it.
  5. 5. “If they push back.” Because they will. And you'll be ready.

30 Conversations. Three Sections. Every Situation Organized.

Work (10 situations)

  • When your boss yells at you
  • When a coworker takes credit
  • When your boss micromanages everything
  • When you get a passive-aggressive email
  • When you get volunteered for extra work
  • When you get blamed unfairly
  • When you need to ask for a raise
  • When you're pressured to work overtime
  • When your boss plays favorites
  • When you keep getting talked over

Relationships (10 situations)

  • When you're having the same fight again
  • When your partner shuts down
  • When your family guilt-trips you
  • When your in-laws criticize you
  • When you feel invisible to your partner
  • When money becomes a fight
  • When chores turn into a battle
  • When your partner dismisses your feelings
  • When you need to say “I need help”
  • When you need to address trust issues

Communication (10 situations)

  • When you need to say no to a friend
  • When you need to confront someone
  • When you need to apologize properly
  • When you're setting a boundary
  • When you need to ask for what you need
  • When a conversation is going nowhere
  • When someone is passive-aggressive
  • When behavior isn't okay
  • When you need to have “the talk”
  • When you need to stand up without yelling

Here's a preview: Coworker took credit for your work

The situation: You did the work. The presentation, the project, the idea. And someone else took the credit.

What NOT to say: “That was actually MY work.”

Why it backfires: It sounds defensive and petty, even when it's completely true. In a group setting, it creates an awkward standoff.

What to say instead: “I'd love to walk through the details on this since I built it from the ground up. Can I share the process and what went into it?”

Why it works: You're not accusing anyone. You're claiming your work by being the person who clearly knows it inside and out. Everyone in the room connects the dots.

This is for you if:

  • You replay conversations at 2am, wishing you'd said something different
  • You deal with difficult people on a regular basis
  • You freeze in hard conversations
  • You want all the answers organized on your phone

This is NOT for you if:

  • You're looking for therapy or counseling
  • You want to “win” arguments
  • You need legal advice for workplace situations

Twelve Dollars.

  • 30 complete answers, organized by situation
  • The “what NOT to say” for each one
  • The “if they push back” follow-up for every situation
  • Pull up on your phone in 10 seconds
  • Every future update added free
  • The “Try It on One Conversation” Promise

    Use any answer on a real conversation. If it doesn't change how the conversation goes, email us and we'll refund you. No questions.

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    Questions People Ask

    How is this different from the free content?

    The newsletter gives you one situation at a time. This is all 30 in one place, organized by category, with the full format for each: what not to say, what to say instead, why it works, and a follow-up if they push back.

    Do I need to read the whole thing?

    No. Find the situation you're dealing with right now. Read that one. Use it. Come back when you need another one. It's a reference you pull up when you need it.

    What if my situation isn't exactly like the example?

    Every answer includes the reasoning behind why it works, so you can adapt the words to fit your specific circumstances. The structure matters more than the exact phrasing.

    What format does it come in?

    PDF. Save it to your phone, tablet, or computer. Designed to be pulled up quickly when you need it.

    Is there a refund policy?

    Yes. Try an answer on a real conversation. If it doesn't help, email us for a full refund. No hoops.

    Will you add more later?

    Yes. When new answers are added, you get them automatically. You paid once. That covers everything.

    You Already Know Which Conversation You Need This For.

    30 answers. Work, relationships, communication. Pull it up on your phone before your next hard conversation.

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