You Know What to Say.
So Why Can't You Say It?
10 patterns that keep you silent, and what to do about each one. PDF + Audio. $9.99.
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You've rehearsed it in the shower. You've typed it out in your Notes app. You've played the conversation in your head so many times you could do it in your sleep.
And then the moment comes. And you don't say it.
Not because you forgot. Not because you don't care. Something stops you. Your throat tightens. Your brain says “not now.” You talk yourself out of it before you even open your mouth.
This isn't about not knowing what to say. You know. The problem is somewhere between knowing and doing.
10 Patterns. 10 Chapters. Each One Has a Way Through It.
Chapter 1
The Freeze
When your body won't let you speak
Chapter 2
The Delay
When you always think of it after
Chapter 3
The Spiral
When you rehearse it 50 times and still can't do it
Chapter 4
The Minimizer
When you convince yourself it's not that bad
Chapter 5
The Peacekeeper
When you'd rather suffer than cause a problem
Chapter 6
The Perfectionist
When you're waiting for the perfect moment
Chapter 7
The Apologizer
When you start every sentence with "sorry"
Chapter 8
The Deflector
When you make a joke instead of saying the real thing
Chapter 9
The Absorber
When you take it all in and say nothing
Chapter 10
The Exploder
When you hold it in until you blow up
Every chapter gives you four things:
- 1. The Pattern. What it looks like from the outside, so you can recognize it in yourself.
- 2. What's Really Going On. Why your brain does this. Plain language, no jargon.
- 3. What to Do. A specific, doable action. Not vague advice.
- 4. What to Tell Yourself. One thought that helps in the moment.
PDF + Audio Included
PDF Guide
10 chapters, one per page. Read the one that hit you hardest. Save to your phone for quick access.
Audio Version
All 10 chapters in one file. Listen on your commute, at the gym, or before a hard conversation.
The Full Package
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“What to Say When...” (30 situations, $12) + “I Can't Make Myself Say It” (10 patterns, $9.99). The words AND the guide for getting them out of your mouth.
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